We all have had a fight with someone sometime or another and often it leaves you sad, lonely, upset, and some times just flaming mad (as my daughter would call it). I hate fighting with my husband and I’d be crazy if I thought that our marriage was perfect and that we would never fight. Hello!!!!!! He’s a man right? LOL just kidding, I’ve started my share too. When we first got married we would never go to bed angry. But now that we are older, have 2 kids, I’ve started a new job and my husband has a non curable disease it’s gotten harder to do that.
Well this week I had a huge revelation if thats what you want to call it. After I had a very long deep discussion(not sure if you would call it a fight but pretty close to it)with my husband something happened.
After 11 years of marriage I found myself once again feeling the way I did the day we got married. When other times I would be in a scurry at work to get things done thinking about what I need to do next, i’m now just trying to concentrate on my job because I can’t stop thinking about him throughout the day. I find my self watching the clock waiting for that little hand to touch the 5 so I can jump up outta my chair and run home to see him. The last couple of days I have been calling him all day long just to hear his voice only to be frustrated that he dosn’t answer because he’s working. You think I am driving him nuts yet? I wonder if he even notices the change? Ok so can I tell you I am having butterflies in my stomach right now typing this.
Well I don’t know what happened but I am sure glad it did, I feel like our marriage is refreshed. If it takes a small fight to feel this way then so be it. I think sometimes its good to just have it out instead of bottling everything up inside then blowing up on each other.Maybe alittle fuss can be healthy to a realtionship? You may just find out that your marriage is stronger than you thought and with God’s help and the love you have for each other you can over come any battle.
I’m no expert but it sure did something for our marriage!
